In Need of Help!!

[Gannginhwa]

I posting here to help one of my fren, he is 24 m. he have not have any gf before, i am worry for him that he will never get one if he carry on like this. he is that kind of honest, shy and dun do any initiation kind of guy. due to his working environment, i doubt he got any chance to meet any girl, he only hang of with his gang to play basketball or go gamming with them. i seriously hope that he will have a chance to fall in love, even it is a sour relationship. as least let him have a chance to understand what is the meaning of love. so ppl out there! pls help me by introducing girl to him! i am serious about it, dun take it as i am a desperado or what, please! i sincerely wanted to help my poor fren here. thanks. i will incude his photo if requested.

[Gannginhwa]

can anyone advice me on what to do? What should i do to let him expose to more chances?

[alve]

pay sum money to get sum match making service from sum vietnam thing lo...

HHAHAHAHA

[alve]

hey wait wait..
paly basket ball...

go gaming with friends..

OMG THT SOUNDS LIKE ME!!!>
HAHAH

im attatched in a 2year relationship!.. XP

[SaintDL]

erm...
first off let me comment on what a caring friend you are.
guys like that are normally a toughnut to crack.
here's what you can do. YOU get to know more women basketball players. hang out together after that. make jokes or tell stories that involve our friend.
Not too obvious or you might scare off the ladies.
The trick is to get them interested and get your friend used to being around with ladies. So the next time he will initiate conversation with them easier.
You might want to look around for 16-20 around JC/POLY gals.
These days women are so liberal. If your friend looks good they might do the initiating. Better yet, one of those gals might be very experienced and our friend here will get very lucky.

[Gannginhwa]

Thanks for the advice, that sounds good. i will try that.

[Gannginhwa]

hey wait wait..
paly basket ball...

go gaming with friends..

OMG THT SOUNDS LIKE ME!!!>
HAHAH

im attatched in a 2year relationship!.. XP

How do you get to know your gf? i am intersted to find out. maybe you can help my fren here?
lol

[SaintDL]

i think our friend's case is kinda... special.

normally someone who plays basketball and hangs out with pals playing games are outgoing.

unless his gaming partners are geeks.

[Gannginhwa]

He is out going, but only play with guys, basically he dunno how to initiate with girls, when i say basketball and games i mean it, that is all he do, how many gals you know actually play basketball and play computer game? seldom right? i never see many girls in the lan shop, even if i do i dont approch them just to know them like that.

[SaintDL]

Uh doods, i think i can guess your age now. I think you must be older then me.

Take a deep breath. Do not be shocked. I was when the i know of this(and i consider myself pretty up to date and young, but i was wrong). So...

You ready?


Alot of girls these days play computer games and sports. Basketball is just the tip of the iceberg. They do more physically demanding sports too, such as canone and dragon boating.

I even lost to a, might i add very sweet, lovely, petite lady at arm wrestling. She joined the SP dragonboat team.

[Gannginhwa]

I am definately older than you by a few year, you are 22?

Maybe i was wrong, but the circle of frens dont really have these kind of girls existing.... too bad, maybe that is why he end up single.

i agree witht the part that a lot of girls are playing computer games nowadays. like maple story( the game i won't play) :)

[hippo]

aiya, so simple. Just join SDS or SDU lah.
take part in their group activities or even a short trip (stuck with the same bunch of people for a couple of days. sure get to talk to some gals)

[SaintDL]

SDS? SDU?

get to know chicks? dang man i'm in. how to get in? what are SDS and SDU?

[Gannginhwa]

hey, common man! we are not trying to get chick or get firt or what, be serious man. this is not about getting chick. sincerely for my poor fren only..

[SaintDL]

dood i've been single almost all my life so far and im 22. i am serious.
im good looking, good body, humourous but somehow women avoid me. my only last relationship which last 1 week end and she told me its because: i look like a playboy

[Gannginhwa]

if you are really that good then there will be girl for you.. wish you all the best. keep trying.

[SaintDL]

with all the crazy culture flowing into singapore these days i doubt it.

[Gannginhwa]

waht crazy culture are you talking about here??

[SaintDL]

Alot of em. 1337 and trash talk have already spread to our young. I can see FREE SEX ERA on its way too.

[Gannginhwa]

so you are saying with all these culture you can get a girl?

[SaintDL]

with all the crazy culture flowing into singapore these days i doubt it.


i hope it answer your question. it tells me you are lazy to read

[Gannginhwa]

seriously i dunno what are you talking about. are you saying that you cant get a gf becos there is this "crazy culture" going on in Sg?

[SaintDL]

no i said i doubt it

[Gannginhwa]

dun doubt, you are good mena you are good.

[SaintDL]

doh.
um.
anyone noticed we've sidetrack alot?